I want nothing to do with my ex boyfriend. his behavior is totally unacceptable. why can't he take a hint?

i just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months because i looked on his facebook wall and saw him writing "whats up princess" on like 3 girl's walls. When i confronted him about it he did not deny it. I was his freaking girlfriend. you dont call other b**tches "princess". sorry but thats not a relationship operates. He's only supposed to call me endearing names. i find this to be a form of cheating. i told my friend about this bullcrap and she was like " kill the relationship. kill it now.. he is shady as hell"


then he updated his facebook status to " i need a good girl. any takers? (CLM)" keep in mind this is BEFORE i broke up with him. So i confronted him about that as well and he was like " i was talking about you. you're the taker. (CLM are your intitials). yeah those are my intials but i think he was BS ing me. Since his cell phone is off i sent him a long @$$ facebook message to break up with him, with all the details of why im breaking it off enclosed inside). after i sent the message he calls me from his house phone like 3 times and then yells at me. he was like " i never cheated on you. why would i need to cheat. i care about you". pshhhh whatever. im MAILING him his mother's ring back becuhs i dont want to see his face.ever.again. He's pratically begging all my friends to make me take him back. i aint shedding no tears. why would i? his loss. if anything he should shed tears. i was a major upgrade from the ugly hoes he used to date. in fact i never cheated on him. and every other girl he has been with has cheated on him. so like i said, defintely his loss. and i will be looking forward not backwards.


what i dont understand is why my friends keep saying im stupid for leaving him. they keep on saying i made a terrible msitake. their my friends, not his. they shouldnt be on his side.|||Maybe he just acted that way because he doesn't know how relationships are supposed to work, like you said, every other girl cheated on him.|||Couple things here... First you sound young, but very smart. Second, you are pretty independent and wont put up with any guys shee-it, so thats great. You are on the right path. And when I read that princess bull shee it, I was upset FOR you, thinkin, this girl is right! But then I thought to be fair, do girls write stuff on a guy friends' wall that may be like "hey sweetie!" And could it be innocent??? And my answer is yes. I think that if you had told your bf and said very simply "You should only use endearing names with ME...." and then said "goodnight" and walked away from him, he would get the message loud %26amp; CLEAR... If you really do care about him, and truly believe he feels for you, then I would LET HIM talk to you on his next attempt. You have made your point, and he gets the point. Dont throw the "baby out with the bathwater" as they say. Also, it sure is RUDE to hear those cutesy names, but that is NOT cheating...Cheating will ruin peoples lives. This was rude and annoying by him, but it certainly won't ruin your life... Good luck! :)